I have decided that I need to post on what I have learned as a home school mom. I decided to start homeschooling when Elisha was 4 years old and Stormie was 2 years old. As I reflect on how I did, I realize that I thought I had to do everything so perfect. I had my kitchen all set up to teach them. I had the bulletin boards all over the walls. It would of been so much more fun if I would of been so much more relaxed. I wanted to be the best I could and this stressed me out. I remember thinking I was going to lose my mind. Only if I would of relaxed a little. I totally was not thinking of how young they were. The best times were the times me and Michelle would do things together with the kids. I miss those days!! It seems like yesterday then I look at our kids and the time has flown by. Thank you Michelle for being there for me during my times of distress and the times of joyfulness. Those memories of our kids together will always be precious.
I was so stressed out from teaching preschool that I decided to put Elisha in Kindergarten. I think this actually made it worse. So half way through the year I went ahead and pulled him and decided to home school. I remember teaching him to read and how stressed I was about it. I called my sister in law Chantel for some advice and she told me to find something he liked like calvin and hobes. This was the best advice ever, my little boy loved these comics and would look at them for hours. And I must say with that and the hooked on phonics program we were successful. He is the best reader now. He would read all the time if I will let him. The only problem is we don't live close to a good library and books are expensive when you read one a day. No joke he read the Harry Potter book in 3 days.
Through the years I have found myself more lad back with my kids and there schooling. Almost to much at times. There has been times that I was just praying I have done enough. We live a busy life at times and things would get behind. This last year we decided on the computer schooling " Switched on School House" by Alpha Omega. I have really loved this program my daughter has finished all her subject except (history, and science). Elisha is almost done with his he has finished two subjects totally. We also do math-u-see and I just decided to do some Shirley English also. The Shirley is more for me I have never been that great at language and I wanted to have something for us all to do together. We are starting from the beginning and doing it together to better ourselves. I hope I can keep up with it. Since Stormie has finished her computer mostly we have been working on her handwriting. I have decided to make her copy information out of a book about weather. This will help her handwriting, spelling, and even get some science information in her head. When I was a kid if I wrote things down I always remembered them better. I am hoping this works for her.
The greatest joy to me as a home school is knowing that I taught my kids to read, write, math, all the other things in between. My children have become excellent readers and both excel at math. This gives me a great accomplishment as a MOM....
I might not be perfect but I hope they look back on this and realize that I took the time and taught them.
On another note my baby Samuel has been dry for awhile now. And has started going to the bathroom on his own. He just went and did his job in the toilet. I am so thrilled, I just hope he keeps up the good work. We are finally on the right track for potty training.
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Sounds like things are going great! Now that this post is in writing, you can go back to it on the days you're being hard on yourself.
Yeah, yeah about Samuel!!
Yeah Samuel!!!
I am coming to realize that being hard on ourselves is part of being a Mom. If they dont do something well, who didnt teach them? MOM! If they act up in the store whos fault is it? MOM! Basically I think Mom's take everything personal and that is why we try so hard for everyone and everything to be perfect! Pride is terrible thing! Argg!
Sis. Cherrie, do you and the kids sing the Shirley English songs? I forever have them drilled in my brain,so when someone asks me what and adverb or an adjective means, I sing the songs in my mind to get what the meaning is. It was a good way for me to learn that.
Hey Cherrie,
I just got back from a quick roadtrip with my hubby and had to catch up on all your blogs. I hope your house sells. It sounds like you guys really want to move.
I enjoyed the pictures of the fishing trip. That is one of the things my family loves to do in the summer.
I really liked Lee's letter to you that is just so sweet. What a romantic he is. When did you go to Hawaii? Alan & I are planning to go next February. I can hardly wait.
As for Homeschooling, I am really proud of you that you have stuck with it so long. You have the patience of Job. All of my kids are begging to homeschool again, but I haven't consented yet.
Way to go on the potty training thing. Sounds like he is coming along just fine.
Chantel- I am very happy with things this year.
Kim- My pride is a hard thing for me. I need to learn and relax, I am getting better.
Raine- Yes we love to sing. And we are learning the songs.
Joanne- Glad you got to get away. And thanks for the comments on all my past posts. We went to Hawaii for our tenth anniversary and enjoyed it so much.
I can completely relate to all aspects of this post. I have changed my point of view on homeschooling and just raising my sons through the years. It has been so good for our family to grow and to stretch our minds towards changes.
P.S. Love all your new blinkies....so cute and so fun!!
Wow, all the kids were so little in those pictures! I think it is great that you have dedicated your life to teaching your kids. I probably could do it, but I just don't think I would be a motivated teacher. That's why my kids are in school. I enjoy my free time ;) But it is awesome that you have been doing so good for all these years!
Glad things are going better for you with the potty training.
The Shirly English thing sounds like a neat program. And I have heard a lot of good things about math u see. I'm kind of new to the homeschooling thing, so when you get out here we'll have to talk :)
Yay on the potty training! Good job on the school. It isn't a small task and we should be happy with what we have accomplished.
Yea for Sammuel!! And double Yea for Mommy!!
I'm sure homeschooling is alot of work, and a lot of stress to make sure your giving your child the best possible education. I know that seems to be alot of my friends worries, but I personally haven't seen one yet who hasn't done a great job and I'm sure you fit into that catergory!
"A sentence sentence sentence is complete complete complete when five simple rules it meets meets meets..."
yep still got Shurley in my brain too! Lots of interaction with the kids and mom w/Shurley! Patting you on the back for potty training achievement! AND since a certain sis posted internet dangers, I decided to change my url. Here is my new address:
http://firstbornfam.blogspot.com
You are great at potty training after all Cherrie. Really! I love reading your homeschool post.
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